TJ Holmes and Amy Rian Violent honestly while giving advice to a 59-year-old man looking at “keep” a relationship with a 19-year-old girl.
As part of their “Ask the Amy and TJ counsel” column ” Yahoo LifeHolmes, 47, Robach, 52, shared a letter they received from a fan, “I care for the motivation to go in love.
Anonymous man asked some “Non-amid feedback“About if he had to find a way to make the work of romance.
“Find the courage to go to the Pleff of ‘Settling for less,’ of hope to experience the kind of love that even the best poets, even the best descriptions, artists can not be fully defined, paralyzed!” He wrote. “He and I now stand on that cliff.”
Holmes and Robach did not hold their response, beginning with a comparison with Bill BelichickWho is 73, and his girlfriend, Jordon HudsonWhich is 24.
“That’s a 49-year-old age gap for them. It’s not a moral matter, but there’s a 25-year-old I don’t have anything together,” says Holmes. “So, how is this work?”
Holmes explained that he is not “in good conscience” Show his support.
“Love can take a lot of shapes. You don’t know where you know, how, when or who don’t hurt you, who we say wrong?” He went on. “If you care about this woman, and love her, think about how much her life is and what she misses by a 60-year-old man.”
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Robach, in the meantime, tried to argue that “it’s not a gesture of age.”
“I’m not interested in judging who should be associated with,” says Robach. “There are people who have filled out different roles in our lives and the difference between the age between you feeling comfortable and safe with him today. But I can’t imagine it’s a bigger red flag for me.”
In his response, Robach emphasized the unbalanced “an important one,” writing, “I have never known who you are and 20 years old.
Holmes and Robach try to offer sight without judgment by Tell it back to their experience as a couple. The relationship with the pair makes the headlines on November 2022 when they were found to eat each other while still married to other people.
“When our relationship was outed, the first and most important thing we had to get the support of our children, friends and parents. Most couples do, especially to be scrutinized, and you should be prepared that yours yours might be yours,” Robach shared. “The fact is that a 19-year-old doesn’t know S ***.”
She continued: “She’s had almost zero experience, and she’s trying to have a relationship with you, somebody who has had decades of different relationship experiences. You know what you want and need, and what you don’t. You don’t know any of those things Yet. She hasn’t yet had a chance to explore who she is. “
Holmes ended by explanation that he did not say that man “did anything wrong,” but when he loved him, it was necessary to “let go of that woman.” Robach is the same thinking in his last response.
“You two have to ask many difficult questions about what you are willing to sacrifice. You, as the old man, should think about what it affects the one you love,” he finished. “Sometimes love is doing the right thing instead of what you want or need at that moment, but it’s done right to the person you love. This is the best success in life.”
