I am a big Sasthen fan.
I’ve read all the Dark Bets series, The Shining, The Doctor Sleeps, and my favorite movie is based on otella, Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption.
So, in most of the many friends who told me their favorite book, the last one start studying 11/22/63.
Here’s the self-checkout process:
On November 22, 1963, three shots rang out in Dallas, President Kennedy died, and the world changed.
What if you could change it?
Stephen King King is a New Testament about a man who goes back in time to prevent the assassination of JFK – A thousand pages in a thousand pages of strength.
Like any good blogger, I’ve dedicated a lot of time – a time-lapse manager, the butterfly effect, and changing the past. I bet you have.
Time travel is such an idea because our brain can’t help but think about “the way down the road” and “what if I do X instead of Y?”
Which brings me to today’s story.
Admitting that certain avenues are closed is the end of freedom.
Some roads are closed
My friend Tim Wait.com Check out this chart about the lifestyle choices we’ve made so far, and the shopping options open to us tomorrow:
It’s easy for our brain to hyperfocus on all the black lines in the past: The ways are closed to us, the decisions we made and the way we know our lives “now.
“Because the way I’ve done this before, this is the way things are.”
“It’s a shame I never did xyz, now it’s too late. I’m so sorry!”
“I don’t deserve to be happy because of this mistake I made”
We often forget that it is only possible to connect the dots from our past lives, which we judged based on the best information we had at the time.
(If you’re looking to read, Matt Haig’s The end of the house It is a thoughtful story about alternative life and acceptance. Haig took over from behind decided to almost take his own life.)
So let’s talk a little bit about those black lines and green opportunities.
Some roads may be closed!
I brought all this material to make two points.
The writer Chris GailBeau, who was inspired by my love of travel, influenced how I built a knowledge of the teaching of escape from here about Celebrate the closing of the doors.
We have heard stories about people who have started some great things in life.
An example would be, “It won’t be too late! Samuel L. Jackson didn’t get a chance to break into “pickp legend” until he was 46 years old.
And Chris points out that sometimes… it’s too late:
While these stories are interesting, the “it’s never too late” lesson is not for everyone. Sometimes it’s too late! To believe otherwise is to believe in fantasy.
Some things in life have real peace – not all, but some.
In other words, sometimes we hold on to something that we know we will do “someday,” and maybe we refuse to admit that… Yes, it’s too late.
Maybe we still hold on to the hope that we will run a marathon… Even though we hate to run.
Maybe we keep hoping we’ll write that cookbook… Even though we don’t really want to cook.
We may decide that some roads are closed to us. We can agree with this.
The future is not set in stone either
A few weeks ago, I wrote about how The past is not set in stonebecause our perception of the story has changed.
It’s okay to admit that maybe the dreams we had when we were in our 20s are worth dying for.
However, it is tricarb that can be considered “too late” to make any changes in our lives, and it is determined.
Betrand Russell once said “You are under no obligation to be with yourself five minutes ago.”
As Chris said:
It’s “not too late” for many things, and that’s okay. But sometimes it has, and that’s okay.
It’s never too late to learn something new. It’s never too late to try new things.
But it may be too late for specific methods, and that’s perfectly fine.
In fact, it deserves to be celebrated.
Leave other options, or accept that other options may be closed to us to make a decision that will be decided differently.
You can decide that from today to:
- Start Profile
- take an online class for a new job.
- Try a new hobby.
- Talk to your doctor about weight loss help.
We can’t travel in time to stop the Kennedy assassination.
Some ways of life are now closed to us.
This can be safe!
Instead of spending money on a brain that regrets covering the blackboard, we can get to work on deciding what size green path to take next.
– Meve
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