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A personal drama has spread online when the young woman comes into contact with others to help her travel situation.
After a lot of back and forth, she said she is now “refuse to help my boyfriend’s dying mother Plan a trip Go to Europe” – Want to know what others think.
Fox News Digital and Reddit people put emphasis on the drama, connecting with clinical psychologists for insight.
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The woman said she was 25 years old and she said she lived with her boyfriend – about a month ago, his mom “started claiming She died of cancerbut the diagnosis has not been confirmed. Every visit to the hospital ends with her being sent home. The woman wrote: “Even a nurse (said) she might be forging it.”
The young woman said her mother asked to “stay for one night” in the couple’s small apartment, “turned into a week of chaos.”
A woman wrote on Reddit that she “refuses to help my boyfriend’s dying mother while planning her trip to Europe” – she asked others to see honestly about her difficult situation. (iStock)
“The apartment smelled bad, everything had to become dark and silent, and she kept asking for help.”
Then, the mother “recommends us to move with her and be an hour away from our work/school.”
The young woman said she is a full-time student and currently works in two jobs and she is beginning to “lag behind”.
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Her boyfriend The young woman added that turning his full-time job into a completely remote position so that he could take care of his mother.
Health updates are “always shifting”, she said. “MRI, Cancel the operationand then postponed chemotherapy due to infection, followed by E. coli. Always a new reason. No clear diagnosis or paperwork. ” she continued.
Then the young woman described a scenario: “We should have taken her to the emergency room…but we ended up staying for 16 hours (at my mother’s house) to do housework. I folded 420 pieces of clothing and cleaned up the whole house and felt like her unpaid maid. Don’t be single or thank you.”
A young woman from Reddit describes the work she has done for her boyfriend’s mother, who is obviously sick – now, as she plans to travel to Europe, the young woman is questioning the whole situation. (iStock)
She continued: “She was delaying going to the ER and when we finally got there at 5 a.m., she said she would check herself and send us home. Three hours later, she called again, crying for help. She was turned down by the ER.”
The woman wrote: “I doubt it She made it. ”
The young woman said she and her boyfriend had been “eating, losing sleep, falling at work to help her.”
“If it were your mother, would you help her?”
To make things more complicated, the mother’s boyfriend, a apparent drunk, begins sending “radical text” to the young couple and then “later apologize.”
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Mother then “calls again for help. But this time, she wants I… I needed to study for the final exam that weekend. It seems sketchy to go to that house alone. ”
The young woman said she is planning a “European trip” now Meet my motherI haven’t seen it in more than a year. ”
A woman wondered when she was “going home” to meet her mother, her boyfriend’s mother suffered a series of problems and was wrong. (iStock)
The woman wrote that when her boyfriend said he supported her for weeks’ trip, he also told her she was “a bit selfish.”
The boyfriend obviously asked her, “If I was dying, would you quit your job and be with me?” and “If it were your mom, would you help her?”
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The woman said she “feels stressed to say yes. But the truth is, my family won’t lie to me or use me like that.”
The woman concluded that she “loved” her boyfriend and wanted to “serve him. But I don’t trust his mom and that started to affect our relationship.”
Then, she wanted to know if she was wrong.”Back to Europe. ”
A woman who writes on Reddit (not shown) is conflicted about her European trip with her boyfriend’s apparently ill mother. (iStock)
To date, about 5,000 people have responded to the individual situation – the vast majority are with stressed young women.
“Why is his family more important than you?”
Written by a top commenter: “I know you love your boyfriend, but you need to ask yourself if you’re willing to give up your life for him and his mom because it never stops.
Another wrote: “Break up. Move out. Go on vacation. Stop dealing with crazy mom and (boyfriend). ”
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Another said, “Why is his family more important than yours? I’ll tell him that he should move assisted living or apartment and hire help. Let him know that while you love him, you’re not igniting your future on the fire to help people who don’t help themselves.”
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Another wrote: “It will be my advice to stay in Europe.”
The person added: “Sounds tired.”
